Friday, September 22, 2006

Rekindle..

Dubai is my home even though I shall forever be considered an expatriate. Born and bred up here, I associate and adhere myself to this land rather than my native country. Twenty years have elapsed since I last visited my motherland. I have buried the faint memories of my last visit deep within where they are least bothered.

My uncle (Mother’s brother) has suffered a massive stroke, his condition is critical and he needs immediate surgery. The doctors refuse to operate until his condition improves. Surgery in his present condition would mean certain death . My Parents are in tears so are my brother and sister who met him during their visit previous year.

Sadly, I vaguely remember him.

His memories were briefly refreshed by a recent visit of his children to Dubai. I found it astonishing as to how well inform they were of my last visit, my childhood antics, my frequent tomfoolery & tantrums. It moved me when I saw a Home video of faces who I remember to be so young now showing visible signs of old age and pleading me to come visit them before it’s too late.

I was humbled by the fact that even though I distanced myself from them they persisted to keep my memories alive amongst themselves. In light of the current series of events, if ever there was a fool it was me.

One never loses a connection as long as good & happy memories remain, everything else is secondary. With aid of those sweet moments it is possible to rekindle any flame.

I pray my uncle makes a quick recovery and then I shall take a trip to rediscover & rekindle the flame i had foolishly put out..

7 comments:

widad said...

Inshalla, he will make a qucik recovery and your travel plans to visit Pakistan will work out.

Itsfarsh said...

Thanks, I hope so too :)

widad said...

Update?

Sarah said...

Will pray for your uncle. InshAllah all will be well.

Ramadhan Mubarak!

Itsfarsh said...

His condition has improved but he is still in the ICU; the doctors have scheduled an angiography on wednesday.

He has suffered two minor heart attacks while he has been in the hospital; I dont understand doctors they know whats wrong with him why are they prolonging the treatment.

widad said...

It's not a matter of prolonging a treatment but really keeping in mind his ultimate welfare. Any action on their part now, if it's the wrong time, could have negative effects. Pray, tht's all we can do.

Sofi said...

I hope he makes a speedy recovery, inshallah.